<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss version="2.0"><channel><title>Porch Light Parlor</title><link>https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/</link><description>Letters about love that has been going a while, answered with a slow smile.</description><language>en</language><item><title>He Still Folds My Laundry But Hasn&#39;t Looked at Me in Months</title><link>https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/he-folds-my-laundry-but-never-looks-at-me/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/he-folds-my-laundry-but-never-looks-at-me/</guid><pubDate>Tue, 27 Oct 2026 03:52:19 GMT</pubDate><description>A reader feels cared for in every practical way and unseen in the one way that matters, and Amara explains how to be noticed again.</description></item><item><title>We Haven&#39;t Kissed Hello in Two Years. Is That Fixable?</title><link>https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/two-years-without-a-hello-kiss/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/two-years-without-a-hello-kiss/</guid><pubDate>Sat, 24 Oct 2026 03:52:19 GMT</pubDate><description>A couple has drifted into hello-by-wave and Amara shows them how to bring the doorway kiss back without making it a Big Event.</description></item><item><title>My Wife Laughs at My Flirting Now. Help.</title><link>https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/my-wife-laughs-at-my-flirting/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/my-wife-laughs-at-my-flirting/</guid><pubDate>Wed, 21 Oct 2026 03:52:19 GMT</pubDate><description>A husband&#39;s compliments get giggles instead of blushes, and Amara explains why the laugh is an opening, not a verdict.</description></item><item><title>Seven Years In and I Miss the Nervous Texts</title><link>https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/seven-years-in-and-i-miss-the-nervous-texts/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/seven-years-in-and-i-miss-the-nervous-texts/</guid><pubDate>Sun, 18 Oct 2026 03:52:19 GMT</pubDate><description>A reader mourns the early flutter of waiting for a reply, and Amara shows how to create a little healthy uncertainty again.</description></item><item><title>How Do I Tell Him I Want to Be Wanted Out Loud?</title><link>https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/how-do-i-tell-him-i-want-to-be-wanted/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/how-do-i-tell-him-i-want-to-be-wanted/</guid><pubDate>Thu, 15 Oct 2026 03:52:19 GMT</pubDate><description>A woman longs to hear desire spoken rather than assumed, and Amara offers gentle words for asking.</description></item><item><title>The Kitchen Light Trick: Three Tiny Rituals to Try Tonight</title><link>https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/the-kitchen-light-trick-three-tiny-rituals/</link><guid isPermaLink="true">https://porch-light-parlor.pages.dev/the-kitchen-light-trick-three-tiny-rituals/</guid><pubDate>Mon, 12 Oct 2026 03:52:19 GMT</pubDate><description>Three small, low-effort evening rituals for two, built around dimmer light, slower hands and a bit of mischief.</description></item></channel></rss>